Judy Field

Counselling in Harrogate, North Yorkshire


The loss you feel with a long-term health condition

11th April 2023

It can be difficult dealing with the impact of a long-term health condition. It’s not just the physical symptoms that can take a toll on you, but the emotional ones as well. Living with a long-term health condition can be a rollercoaster ride of emotions. You might feel angry, frustrated, scared, or even depressed at times. It’s important to remember that these emotions are normal, and you’re not alone in feeling them.

One of the biggest emotions that people feel when dealing with a long-term health condition is loss. You may be feeling a loss of independence as you condition prevents you from living your life in the way you’d like. You may also feel a loss of identity, and you may find in difficult to adjust to the new normal and all it entails. A long-term health condition may also affect your relationship as well. Try to accept that things are different and it’s okay to grieve these losses and to feel sad about them.

But it’s also important to try to find ways to cope with these losses. Seeking support from loved ones, engaging in self-care activities, and reaching out for professional help are all ways to that may help you through this difficult transition.

When you’re dealing with a long-term health condition, it can be easy to feel like you’re all alone in your struggles. But that’s not the case at all. There are support groups, online forums, and other resources available to help you connect with others who are going through similar experiences.

Try to see seeking help as a sign of strength, not weakness. If you’re struggling with the loss you are feeling, don’t be afraid to reach out for support. A counsellor or mental health professional can help you process your emotions and develop coping strategies to help you deal with them.

Self-care is another important aspect of coping with the emotional impact of a long-term health condition. Taking care of yourself physically and emotionally can help you feel more resilient and better able to cope with the challenges you’re facing.

Some self-care activities you might consider include exercise, meditation, making sure you are getting enough sleep, and engaging in hobbies or activities that you enjoy. Remember, self-care looks different for everyone, so find what works for you.

In conclusion, living with a long-term health condition can be challenging both physically and emotionally. But it’s important to remember that you’re not alone in your struggles. Seeking support from loved ones, reaching out for professional help, and engaging in self-care activities can all help you cope with the emotional impact of a long-term health condition.

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To find out more about Individual CounsellingBereavement Therapy, Remote Counselling or my other services, you can contact me on 07855 059 964. Due to the nature of my work, I am not always available to answer the phone – please leave a voicemail message and I will get back to you as soon as possible. Appointments now available for in-person sessions, with social distancing in place. My therapy room is well ventilated and cleaned between each client session.

Most of the time I am able to offer you your first therapy session within a few days of your initial enquiry.

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Opening Hours

I am able to offer day, evening and weekend appointments, subject to availability. My final appointment time on an evening is 8pm, Monday to Thursday and 7pm on a Friday.


Monday: 8am to 9pm

Tuesday: 8am to 9pm

Wednesday: 8am to 9pm

Thursday: 8am to 9pm

Friday: 8am to 8pm

Saturday: 8am to 2pm

Sunday: Closed